I ⦠I didnât need someone in my life that took almost a year to see my potential. The simple fact of the matter is that I would never pull myself out of this hole of self loathing if I didn't force her out of my life. Sadly, this is a deceiving feeling as you can always lose anyone at any time. The simple fact of the matter is that I would never pull myself out of this hole of self loathing if I didn't force her out of my life. Mistake I've regretted for 13 years now. This has been fucking me up for a while but it's also been an enormous eye-opener because of how unhealthy our relationship was. i cried because i lost the love of my life because of what i have done. share. So you let her go. But it was the right thing to do for many reasons that aren't for here. If she loves you, she wonât leave you and she probably enjoyed your spam. You lost her. Those are formative years. I can't really explain it. FML PRES I agree, your life sucks I 186 I Unknown On the 2/7/14 at 10:18 AM g Today, my girlfriend and I were quite drunk while we were fooling around on the couch, when I decided I wanted to lose my virginity to her. Thanks to Kaitlyn Price for adding these lyrics. Besides just losing him. I lost her. This is human nature though - we tend to value things once we REALLY realize that they can be taken away or gone at any time. You left her starving, emotionally, and fed her sparingly. i told her goodbye after that, and she never responded. When I hear stories like this I wonder if it matters if its the wife or its the husband. Being around you made me smile like never before, and when the world let me down, you did not. Sometimes I hope this is how my ex feels. i think i loved her too quickly and scared her off, got drunk twice over the holidays and ended up blowing up her phone about how amazing she is - i really hope i havenât lost her. My mom left my step dad and he got remarried to a great lady and is super happy now. Fuck-fuckinâ hell.â I curled up into an impossible ball on the kitchen chair I was sitting on, trying to put a stopper on the way my heart was expanding all throughout my body. The right one will stand at ur side even when ur at ur lowest because she loves you for who you are, New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. i been trying to move on, its just been so difficult for me. One of the reason, and the one of the biggest reasons that this happened is because you took their presence/comfort for granted. I was a little shit who thought I was too good for her, and left. Press J to jump to the feed. If she could hear your thoughts, it would rile her up with anger and hatred. They’re awesome) but my poor mom has to watch them being happy together every year while she lives alone. She held my hands and told me that her parents were asking her to go home so that she could meet a guy that they liked for her ⦠Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Sometimes I hope for that not because I want them to hurt, but to know I’d then have been valued. Because of this, they may seem heartless and cold. Meanwhile my mother has been through 2 additional failed marriages since divorcing my dad, and now lives alone. I have nothing to support it, but I feel like its tougher for an older woman to find something serious than it is for a man--its probably easier for a woman to hookup, but I mean to find a real relationship. In general, men arenât as expressive as women are. She validated and encouraged me but never pushed me. Once he realized he wanted me, I realized I didnât need him. When I realized I loved you, I cried for half an hour. When I talked about him to others, I would complain about his imperfections rather than focusing on his good traits. There is someone who just waited for you to make a mistake so he could swoop in and sweep her off of her feet. I was too good for a guy who thought for so long that I wasnât good enough. i cried to her because i really felt she was the one. Head in my hands for 15 minutes, Whispering â Oh fuck. And there is probably now someone who gives her everything she deserves without her needing to ask. r/AskReddit is the place to ask and answer thought-provoking questions. A strange sensation came over me. 1. ... After we lost everything in the 2008 financial crisis, ... Part of me even still loved him. howre you handling that / how did you handle that? She did admit I am still in her heart however, so I know there's a chance I can be with her. Lyrics: A lot of times I don't feel I got no one to talk to / And all the drugs I take I promise that I try and not to / But people just avoid me so I smoke and pour a shot too / I'm You mightâve realized what you lost, but you realized it too late. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. At first, I didn't have any feeling at all toward her, however, after meeting her for several times, I started to like her. You wanted her to stop caring about you, so you wouldnât have ⦠I did absolutely everything in the world and more and further for them. When a man realizes he lost a good woman. When he called me up the day after I broke up with him to ask me if I was ok. Yeah. There was always a spark between us but nothing ever happened. Discover and share I Lost Her Quotes. Hi guys, about half a year ago, a girl confessed her feeling toward me and I rejected her, now I can't stop thinking about her and I start to realize that I really like her. Submit Corrections. My mom did the same thing, to both my dad and stepdad, and as bad as you might feel for her, it was entirely her decision and she needs to accept the consequences of her actions. It started four years ago when I met her for the first time in my first year of college. That sounds emo, but we had so much backstory, so much history, so many inside jokes, so much shorthand for everything. 2. I think it was what I thought was love at the time. Happy to see it all has worked out for you. I didnât need a man who took that long to choose me. She's never said anything about it, but I have to wonder if she regrets ending the marriage with my my father (she initiated the divorce from him). "I told my fiance I loved her shortly after she told me. Now I'm childless and alone at 42. You told her you loved her, but you stopped showing it. I wandered. Girls like her donât wait for anyone. I broke things off with a woman who claimed she "loved me" after 4 months. After travelling for almost a half hour, I reached the park and I could see her sitting, from the parking spot; she was tensed. i plan on staying true to my word, and leaving her alone..but i just loved her so much. I didn't know whether I loved her or not when I was with her, but after she ended things I quickly realized that I really did love her. But not only thatâyou pushed her away. I didnât isolate myself. I got complacent in a lot of lazy, losery behaviors because she accepted it, so why should I change anything? You forgot that love must be maintained and tended to every single day, not sporadically. It still stings every day, but a little bit less than the day before. I found myself creating imaginary red flags. I went closer and asked her what happened. Somehow, forgetting her seems impossible. Contradicting previous answers, you may have actually loved him from the very beginning. She was my first real girlfriend so I didnât really understand what I was getting into. I lost her I will never stitch the hole you cut In hopes that you will return to me I will work to be a man yes you will see yes I will work to be your man yes you will see. My ex had major self esteem issues. The site may not work properly if you don't, If you do not update your browser, we suggest you visit, Press J to jump to the feed. It's taken me a couple months to realize: I didn't break up with her because I was sick of her, I broke up with her because I was sick of who I was becoming and how dependent I was on her to feel good about myself. My mom told me recently that leaving him was the biggest mistake she made because he was the only good man she ever really knew. And after some soul searching, I realized that I really do love her with all of my heart and want to be with her, but when I told her she said she got tired of waiting, and doesn't want me anymore. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. Congrats on your sobriety, When i realised that i can’t be the same person i was with my ex with anybody else. You whispered to yourself that it wasnât meant to beâthat someday, someone would love her in all of the ways that you just didnât feel that you could. AZLyrics. I was very patient even after i told her i loved her and she told me she wasnt there yet but had strong feelings. Explore our collection of motivational and famous quotes by authors you know and love. This is a subreddit dedicated to promoting discussion about the philosophy of love and relationships! EP: ⦠They divorced more than 2 decades ago, but my dad remarried within a few years and has been very happy since with my stepmother. B. Brighten Lyrics. I tried to.make her feel at ease take things slow. When I was a student I met a man who became my best and dearest friend. After she left me, I realized that all the things I prioritized above her meant nothing to me without her to share it all with. You grew complacent with her. She would explode at the idea that after all this time you finally realized that you didnât know what you had until it was gone. 100% Upvoted. It's taken me a couple months to realize: I didn't break up with her because I was sick of her, I broke up with her because I was sick of who I was becoming and how dependent I was on her to feel good about myself. Published: 17:01 EST, 16 January 2013 | Updated: 10:16 EST, 18 July 2017 As time went on I realized I wanted to be more than just friends with her. I sent her my jacket, and she never wore it, she'd never send me more than a sentence after a few months of us dating, she always appeared online, I'd tell her I was uncomfortable and then she'd keep making the same jokes about other guys, when I told her I didn't feel like she loved me, she told me she was cutting herself so I wouldn't break up with her. It just means you are no longer worried you may lose him or her. Looking down, I realized I was between her cheeks and the couch cushion. We all have Christmas at their house (seriously he and my mom divorced and he’s still grandpa to my sisters kids and we call his new wife our step mom. Well, I guess, shit happens ... Hello, 45 year old dad here, am typing this from my son's Reddit account. My mom told me recently that leaving him was the biggest mistake she made because he was the only good man she ever really knew. Obviously you can build history and jokes with new people, but it's not the same of 15 years of history from age 16 to age 32. I stuck by her. Realizing what I had lost made it even harder. Yeah, exactly. 1 - This happens too frequentlyâ¦your soulmate is right next to you and you donât notice till they left. She was 10 yrs older than me and had a messy marrage and few messy relationships. We'd known each other for 15 years. It really fucked me up when I broke up with my fiance ten years ago because I realized I could never be the same person I was with him, with anyone else ever again. You were careless with her love, her time, and worst of all, her heart. You were talking to your mom on the phone and pretending you were alone while I buried my face in your shoulder and dozed off. Looks like you're using new Reddit on an old browser. I faltered, and I lost my way. Log in or sign up to leave a comment log in sign up. To the girl I loved and lost, I woke up yesterday from a dream that we were lying in bed together on some lazy Sunday morning. It never clicked with me until now. i think i loved her too quickly and scared her off, got drunk twice over the holidays and ended up blowing up her phone about how amazing she is - i really hope i havenât lost her. I called her from a payphone in London to hear her voice and to ask her to take me back, or at least wait for me until I came home. I had to mourn the loss of a part of me, a whole side of my personality, that I would never get to be again. I left the love of my life because I thought I could do better. This could not be happening now. I realized I no longer wanted to be married to my husband while having sex with him. I remembered how I loved every moment we shared together, sometimes doing nothing at all. When he realized he lost someone who loved her with everything sheâs got, heâs not going to admit his guilt and regret right away. For 23 years I did think I had lost the man I loved forever. And couldn't you tell him you've realized your mistake? My mom left my step dad and he got remarried to a great lady and is super happy now. When love disappears and a couple breaks up, the connection between them turns into movie-like, however the style may be completely different â it can go the best way of a comedy or even a horror film. I was two thrusts in when she burst out laughing. Then I have 9 months of HORRIBLE relationships and hookups and realized the mistake I made. In fact, heâll end up doing everything to shut off these emotions. Regardless, it was the right thing to do to leave him. it's better that you lost her early in this simple way. Some people are taught to withhold their emotions and you are probably one of those people- in fact bet you still don't know how to express your emotions. I never regretted that. I guess the saying of "you don't know what you've got till it's gone" is accurate in my situation. That was only one day! One day we met for coffee, something we were both very passionate about, and I told her how I felt and what I wanted. The next tales are precisely like this and just one factor is clear: thereâs by no means a uninteresting second when speaking along with your exes. 7 comments. My parents went through something similar. The last time I saw you, I felt this happiness in my heart. Here are 4 ways I recovered after I lost my investment in love. 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